Biggest Loser, What would you, dancing with the stars

Last night was a big tv night for me. Why do all the good shows come on tuesday night? I never watch the biggest loser, but I did last night and it made me cry. I felt so bad for the girl that lost 10 thousand bucks and the lady who got sent home. I think that those people should not get sent home. They should continue to strive and let them stay on the show until the end and then the biggest loser should get a millon bucks, like survivor except they don't get kicked off each week. It's just way to sad. I watched another new show "what would you do" that was interesting. It sets up scenerios with hidden cameras to see how the general public acts to what is going on. Really interesting and very sad to know that we are in a world where very few will step up to the plate for a stranger. On dancing with the stars Belinda the go go girl got kicked off. The first hour of the show was a waste because they just recapped and showed the two danced that we seen monday and the week before. Had I known they were going to do that I'd of never watched the other two shows. That was a waste of a good hour. I watched part of my beloved NCIS, but I recorded it so I can watch it sometime this week. Also I recorded real housewives of NY because I went to bed. I'm still sick but I'm feeling better. The cold has moved into my chest. i'm keeping my fingers crossed it gets better on it's own because i no longer have a general doctor. I fired my last one. she sucked and i'm not going back! The baby seems to be doing better, and as far as my husband goes i'm not going to comment because my mom taught me if i don't have anything nice to say don't say it. Ok, i'm going to say it.....he is not helping me around the house and it's driving me nuts!! Instead of doing anything yesterday on his day off he spent the day at his parents house. I came home from being sick and not feeling good but yet I put my 8 hours in, to having to do dishes that had been there since before he went out to the bone on monday!!! Instead of going to the bone or his parents house, pick up a sponge and do something for crying out loud!!!! Grrrrrr....ok i'm done. what can you do....i've came to the conclusion, nothing. if i say anything it's a fight and i'd rather not live my life fighting.

march 15

So I just got the kids in bed. It's been a quiet weekend. Richie woke up friday night with a fever, and although it didn't last past saturday he has had a cough that leaves him sounding like a seal. He seems to be better, but it's always the morning that is the true test. I almost thought I broke his finger, he got it stuck in a ball during his bath, i pulled it out but then it was red and looked a little swollen (his fingers are so chuncky it's hard to tell) when i touched it he started screamig. but by the time i put him on the changing table to get him dressed real quick he was moving it and seemed better. right away the reddness started going away. i'm going to keep my eye on it, wouldn't i feel like an ass if i wake up and it's swollen and turned out to be broken....but i don't think it is....really. Katie was busy and gone all weekend but she seemed pretty wore out when she got home. i don't think it took her long to fall asleep. The shuttle launch was beautiful. I've grown up my whole life watching the launches from my front yard or from school depending when they were launched. It still amazes me and leaves me in awe. I'm going to be so sad when they quit launching the shuttle, it's been a part of my whole life. i have done nothing all weekend other than dinner friday night and yesterday i took katie to my dad's to be with laurie. i haven't even grocery shopped or anything! i managed to get some housework done, like mopping, i've only been putting it off for weeks....yeah i shouldn't admit that should i? i took an hour nap today when richie slept. i needed it though, i think i have been running on empty for awhile. speaking of empty....darn it, i have to get gas in the morning. i hate that!!! wish i would have thought about it sooner, i would have gone and got it today. i much rather get it during the day than in the morning when i'm busting butt to get to work and katie to school. at least my mom's coming to watch richie so i don't have to take him to the sitters. (i don't want to take him out not feeling well, if he's still sick in the morning i'm going to make a doc apt) guess it's already 10, i better get ready for nighty night.

Friday

Friday night finally...yeah!! Just got home and the baby to bed from dinner with my Real housewives of Rockledge club...lol. It's so nice to have dinner with girlfriends and chit chat. The boys were so good. (We both have babies that are only two months apart) We had another wife start going with us to our friday dinners. She's currently trying for her first baby. It's fun to start sharing the journey with her. I'm so darn tired from this time change this week. I'm getting ready for bed myself. I think richie is getting a new tooth, he feels kind of warm and has been cranky. His gum looks kind of red and it looks like white is getting ready to push through, but it could be my eyes tricking me. (I've only been waiting on him getting a new tooth since november) I caught the end of the ghost whisperer, so now the dead hubby who's in someone else's body now remembers being the old hubby and had no idea he was in a new body, (he almost drowned so it shook things up) so I guess we have a new story line to start following. I didn't even watch flashpoint, it's on in the living room but I had no interest tonight. Tomorrow I have to get katie back from my mom's and then she's going to spend the night at laurie's, she's such a social butterfly these days..last weekend it was anna's house. next weekend she's going to her dad's. she hasn't been in awhile and she was feeling guilty last night because she said he seemed sad. I told her not to worry that he was fine, guys like to make things seem worse and loves when we feel sorry for them....ok so i didn't tell her all that but some of it...lol. Sunday i have a tastefully simple party (or whatever it's called) guess i'll be walking out of there with my wallet lighter. BUT I'M NOT GETTING SUCKED INTO HOSTING ANY PARTIES!!! Did I say I'm glad it's friday and i'm going to bed now? cause i am! lacy if you're still reading these, boogie boarding season is coming up.....let me know when the water is a little warmer!!

tv, twitter, facebook

Ok, Now after reading my last ten post I'm sure you all think I'm a tv junkie. And i'm sad to say it's true. I never was until this past year. I never had any shows I watched weekly. My DVR has changed my life. Now I DVR all sorts of shows and watch tv more than i should. I'm sorry if my blogs bore you guys about tv shows, but now richard works so much and i'm in a "baby jail" all i really do is watch tv and go on the computer!! I was so upset tonight when I was watching my recorded "Hells Kitchen" just to realize that american idol had ran over and the dvr only records that hour it's set so Hell's kitchen ran over and I missed who was kicked off. Thankfully i went to the website where it showed me colleen was kicked off. i'd of never thought that because when they were showing who each team nominated she wasn't even one of them!! Now on to my new bad habit....twitter. I never knew what it was until i was watching my dvr'd ellen from yesterday with sean p diddy combs and he brought it up to her. So i signed up and am following ellen, ryan seacrest, and a few others. it's so cool because while ryan seacrest was on the set of american idol he posted a comment and you see it right away. (no i'm still not watching a.i. this season but it's neat to follow him). Lastly before I go to bed, I log onto facebook wayyyyy too much. i need to get my life back, one that is filled with things i'm doing not who i'm watching....lol.

new tv show

I found a new love. Dancing with the Stars....who'd of thought? I've never watched it before and last night hooked me! I loved Steve-O from Jackass, Holly from the Girls next door, and Ty a bull rider......if you get a chance, check it out!! Last night was the first show of the season so I'll keep you updated!! Tonights NCIS is repeat but I'll be checking out the Real housewives of NYC!!!

FCATS are this week here in Florida for the kids. So it's bed to early and eating healthy breakfast for us. Keeping my fingers crossed for all of our children!! (Hopefully they'll do away with this stupid test)

suck weekend

Friday night I stayed home, watched the ghost whisper. It was good, she finally told the guy that his spirit was her husbands. That the body of the guy his spirit's in went into the light and that's why he can't remember any of his life. He told her she needed professional help. She got mad so we'll see what happens next week.

Saturday I did not go to the garage sale. I stayed home with Richie all day. Richard took his Mom and came home with the ugliest comforter for our bed. But it's not going on our bed. I'm thinking trash can is more appropriate place for it. When he came home saturday I had to get katie from the sitter's. i ran to BJ's and got diapers and formula. I had mentioned Rich taking me to breakfast on sunday, he was like sure. Five minutes later his phone rings and when i asked him what it was about, i found out he was going fishing on sunday morning. so i didn't get to see him saturday and didn't look like sunday either. He actually did go fishing even with my protest. So on sunday i took the kids to seaworld by myself. The weather was great and we had fun. I'm sad that I didn't get to spend any time with my hubby and he works next weekend, then the following weekend he has to help him mom with a garage sale so i won't see him that saturday either. But that's what he wanted to do, i think it's better he did go fishing because i don't want to spend the day with someone who doesn't want to be with me. At least now i know what is more important to him.

I was right

I mentioned to Richrd that I didn't want to drag little Richie to Orlando to garage sale, his tone and attitude changed and he told me to "do what you want to do" in that tone that told me that's not what he really means. Guess we'll see what I feel like doing in the morning. :o(

blog blog blog

So nothing really worth reading going on in my life. Intersting weekend ahead. Rich is off, he wants to go to the Celebration Garage sale, well I shouldn't say he wants to, he is going and taking his mom. I haven't decided if I'm going. Taking a baby to Orlando to sit in a car and garage sale....hmmm sounds fun. I didn't get to see Richard this morning. He was still at work when I left the house but by the time I dropped off the baby at the sitters he was on his way home. I had a hard time falling asleep last night, it's mardi gras time and for whatever reason the past creeped into my mind and haunted me before I could fall asleep. Once I did though, I slept hard all night untill about 5 am when I heard Richie starting to stir. When I refer to the past and it haunting me, yes I was referring to Richard and the shower incident that occurred on mardi gras night several years ago. I just want to know when these memories will fade more and not haunt me. We have a good marriage, he's faithful to me, treats me good, I know it's in the past, to be exact a few years in the past but yet around this time of year it all comes back to me and feels closer than three years ago. It still hurts....I want that hurt to disappear forever. I know people love going to mardi gras and richard and i have had good times going since this incident happend but yet, I hate when it comes and people start talking about it because all the memories of that year come back. Ok, I'm kicking a dead horse, i'll get off this topic. Actually i'm going to end this blog and get to work so i quit thinking altogether. For the record, I do love my hubby with all my heart and I do forgive him for the past pain, that's not the issue, the issue is with my mind letting crap effect me that shouldn't.

sit down

Kudos Kudos...Richard did the dishes today and I didn't even ask him to!!!! I knew he was a good hubby! I came home to no dishes in the sink. I have lassagna in the over for tomorrows night dinner, I'm doing good! My Mom's coming in the morning to watch Richie so i don't even have to get up extra early. As soon as the lassagna's done i'm going to let it cool and go to bed. If Richie sleeps in until my alarm goes off life is good. Other than that it's just another day with nothing to report. I watched no tv tonight. I feel bad, I dvr Ellen and Ihaven't watched any episodes in two weeks. i've got to catch up. My favorite lesbian couple said since I dvr it and watch it all the time, i'm border line batting on their side...lol.

3/4

Middle of the week, I wish it was the end. I could use to get paid!!! Money is running low in the Harris household. I need to find a money tree...let me know if you guys find one. Rich getting paid every other week stinks, luckily this is payweek for him. While we're speaking of Rich, he did do dishes yesterday for me when he got back from his parents house. I always come home kinda moody because i know i have alot of work ahead of me still as far as the house and kids go, but it's not against him or anyone...it's just my way of getting in my zone. Well someone took it personal and got an attitude with me because i mentioned the dishes needing to be done (yeah he had been at his parents all day so they could see the baby and the rest of the past week, including the weekend he's done nothing around our house because he's been sleeping for work) I offered to do the dishes if he'd take the baby for me.....but he huffed and did the dishes. I know he's tired and works alot of hours, but damn it i'm tired too and the dishes had to get done so i could cook dinner. i hate cooking with dishes from the previous night (that he said he'd do for me so i left them) still sitting in the sink. Ok, I'm done venting. Rich is a good hubby, he's just domesticated challanged. Tomorrow is season finale of Burn Notice....good show, i'm sorry it's already done for the season. Guess we'll have to wait untill the summer or fall for more shows. For the american idol people, i'm not watching it this season. I know I was addicted for two seasons but this year i couldn't get into it. I watched one or two shows and ended up turning them both before they were finished. i do that with shows, i watch them and then get burned out. Like House, I used to love that show, now I just don't even try to watch it. I did watch the girls next door this past sunday and i have to admit i was sad to see them go. Even if the continue the show with these new chicks, i won't be watching. It's not the same as Holly, Bridgett, and Kendra. They made the show! So girls....enjoy your new life, you will be missed! At least I have the deadliest catch to look forward to, should be coming next month! (Which means we're getting real close to my son turning one!!!) NCIS was a repeat so I have nothing on that. That's my tv rundown and life lowdown...lol! Late.....

Weekend update

What a weekend! I haven't done that much with just Richie and I ever! I'm usually too tired to take him to do too much without Richard's help. Friday night we went to dinner with a friend of mine whose hubby works with Richard. Since they were both working we got together and ate mexican food and I talked way too much. I don't know what was wrong with me because I couldn't shut up! I guess I wasn't too bad because we're doing it again in two weeks...lol. Saturday my brother Chad and I went to the Seafood fest. It was yummy food but wayyyyyy too crowded to have a baby in a stroller trying to stroll through dirt! I was dirty and tired after we were done. The crowd was worse than disney world in july! Plus there were ALOT of drunk people. I think it should be called the seafood and beer fest. It was nice weather and the food did taste really good. I don't even like fish and I tried Chad's, it was great. I had the fried shrimp and it was also good. Sunday I got up about 630 am when Richard got home and by 10 am I had gone to Publix and Walmart. I wanted to get out and back before the rain moved in. Richard was home sleeping and I had Richie with me. I figured he didn't need to get cold and wet. The rest of the day I cleaned my house and I even got a nap in! Richie took a two and half hour nap so that gave me time to get one in too! I got Richard up about 4 and fed him before he was off to work again. This morning I seen him for about 10 minutes, he's off tonight but I have darts. I haven't been in two weeks but I'm going tonight! (I haven't practiced at all so i'm nervous!) I really am going to not play next season!!! I keep saying that but it just is too much for me right now. Like today I'm already tired and I really would rather go home and relax with hubby, but I signed up for this. This morning I've already got alot done. I got up, got ready for work put a roast in the crock pot, got the baby and katie up. I got Katie's clothes out for her and did her hair, then I dressed the baby, packed his diaper bag and fed him his blueberry oats for breakfast! Went out started the truck, loaded it up, then went and got the kids and loaded them up and I was out of the house by 7:05 AM! I was at work by 7:45 am and now I better actually go do something productive here!!!!! So far I've only caught up with my co-workers weekend and my email, guess i better get busy!!!